Dear future husbands, friends, family, subscribers, readers and strangers -
When we first started the Dear Future Husbands blog, we never expected it to take off as quickly as it has, what was intended to be a place for our cleaver musings about a life-to-be has turned into a place of real discussions, intriguing debates and entertaining banter, but we want to make sure that people understand that this is not meant to be a blog where we pine for the loves that we don't have yet, but instead to:
1. To Assure Others That They Are Not Alone
Although, maybe not one of the initial goal of the blog, we believe that it has become one of the most important ones. People never like to feel like they are the only ones dealing with a problem and as we have discovered in writing this blog, there are a lot of people who need encouragement in this area. You are not the only single person in the world, you are not the only person who asks questions about their future and being single is by no means, the end of the world.
2. To Give Advice
We don't claim to have all the answers, but hopefully there are some things that we have learned about ourselves and relationships along the way.
We do want you to know that we do not obsessively sit around the house thinking about all the things that we could say to our future husbands, we are not endlessly discussing boys we like or plans for our weddings, but when you open your mind up to the possibilities of things you would want to say to someone you would marry someday, or to a community of people looking for answers, you might find, as we have, that there are a lot of things worth saying, a lot of lessons that can be learned, things that if we take the time to understand them now, they might make our lives easier in the future, whether that be with or without a husband.
